Strength attracts weakness. A strong man is attracted by a weak woman. With her, he feels like a real macho - cool, successful, omnipotent. But how can a woman remain weak in a world that recognizes only strength, rigidity, authority? Where the determined, grasping, assertive succeed. How? Easily! Otherwise, the woman would not be a woman. There are several reliable and proven tricks.
Instruction manual
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Allow yourself to be helpless. At least once a day. This refers to helplessness that requires outside intervention. Of course, it is better if it is a man. Can you fix a leaking tap yourself or hammer a nail? Do you find signing contracts and negotiating easy? Great. But if you at least occasionally demonstrate your helplessness (at a convenient time and at a suitable time, of course), then everyone will be amazed to see in you an element of fragile femininity. This will give you a special charm, which is greatly appreciated by the stronger sex.
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Learn to ask for help. Of course, for self-sufficient ladies, even this thought itself is disgusting. Yes, they’d better bite the earth, but they won’t go down to such humiliation. And in vain. You should be aware of this little trick even if you are a super-wuman. After all, asking for help, you indirectly declare your own imperfection, which means you are a living person, and it is at this moment that a small, weak woman peeps through your armor. This cannot but touch the man. This exalts him, inspires his exploits. And now he is already your slave. It is known that there is a certain psychological attraction to someone who has been helped at least once.
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Stop taking the daily exam for the image of ideal and impeccability. It is impossible to be perfect in everything. Allow yourself to relax. Laze, be lazy. Forget for a while about that accurate schedule in which your life is squeezed. By the way, analyze it, this graph: is there a place for love in it? Until your man sees that you are ready to give him most of his time, you will not be in demand. Explore and feel (at least for a short time) your need for another person. Allow yourself just to live, breaking out of an endless circle of worries. Do not be afraid to seem weak, believe me - a woman only benefits from this.
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Change the role. You have already been self-sufficient and strong and know what it is. Try on yourself now the image of a simple and weak woman, vulnerable and helpless. Remove the iron shell. In every woman, an actress is hiding, so doing this for a while will not be difficult. You will see how many will be drawn to you in order to protect, preserve, cover with yourself, and substitute your shoulder. The game is worth the candle. Go ahead.