People who are pleasantly impressed in the process of communication, as a rule, achieve much more in life than gloomy and unsociable individuals. However, in order to please others, you need to know and follow a number of fairly simple rules.
Instruction manual
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First of all, try to behave quite restrained in the process of communication. Hot-tempered people, of course, are much easier to "discharge", but those around are always wary of such personalities.
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Gradually learn to hide negative emotions. This is a rather difficult task, but if you look at a person with contempt, indifference or ridicule, you are unlikely to be able to get in touch with him. At the same time, try to always remember that you can cause conflicting impressions in other people.
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Never forget a smile. In some cases, it’s worth behaving as if you are a dancer on stage and smiling constantly. In other circumstances, a smile will be in place from time to time. But always remember that it will be much more pleasant for your interlocutor to see a smiling face.
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When communicating in any situation, never allow yourself to develop thoughts about how beneficial this communication is to you. Try to always behave naturally and be interested in conversations, even if this is not entirely interesting to you.
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Try to always bet on your strengths. That is, if you are not a master in telling jokes, then it is better to sincerely laugh at funny stories performed by others. Feel free to tell a little about yourself and your life. Remember that stealth is always repulsive.
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Try to criticize others as little as possible and praise yourself. Critics, especially unfounded, people do not like. Moreover, they do not tolerate laudatory monologues from those who do this constantly.
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In each conversation, before expressing your own opinion, think a little and listen to the arguments of others to the end. Moreover, in the course of the conversation, new circumstances may become clear, and your speech will seem inappropriate.
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No matter how you want to please others, do not try to always be attractive and charming. Remain yourself, just always pay attention to others.