To be different, you should ask yourself why you want this? To banish boredom, find interesting adventures, change your life, make new friends? Or to surprise your surroundings? The answer to this question already contains half the answer to the question of which direction one should work in order to become different than usual.
Take a different look at yourself
Usually, people begin to change something in their life, thinking about what they do every day, what shapes their life, in order to begin to respect themselves and not regret the years spent aimlessly. Also, sometimes I really want to impress someone. Doubts as to whether something will come out of this venture arise almost always.
The main reason that you decide to be different from what you used to and constantly change is that you can do it. At some point, you realize that you can be any kind of person: interesting, unusual, attractive, and so on. It all depends on how you look at yourself.
Explore all around
Begin by exploring everything within reach. Where do you usually go? What do you usually do? Try different things. Choose a different restaurant for your usual Friday dinner. Instead of visiting the mall every Saturday, head out of town and ride a helicopter.
Choose landmarks
You yourself are "not the same as always." Each person is lively and unique, and if you listen to your desires and your inner voice, you will not be able to be ordinary and like everyone else, since your personality will express itself loudly. But this is not so easy to do, especially at first, if in the past you carefully closed your eyes to what your inner voice was trying to say. You can start by highlighting a few people whose originality, maybe even folly, and independence attract you the most. These may be people from your environment or those you are just reading about. Now listen and take a look at what these people are doing. Go where they go. Take over their habits and those elements of the image that you like. One bright detail from several images - and you already look and behave very unusual, completely different from before.
Chat with strangers
Stop being afraid of talking to strangers. All the most unusual and interesting comes to human life with new people. One of them was where you are unlikely to visit. Other people do things that you can’t decide yet. People who you meet, perhaps only once in your life, who have become your random conversationalists in a bar or on an airplane, are capable of teaching you more than all the tips and books combined. Perhaps one of the amazing strangers you met just wrote some such book.
Make up your mind
So many things you want to do, but doubt it. Time passes, and with it your life passes, the same as usual. If you make a mistake or win - no one knows, then the stupor in making decisions that covers you will only lead to the fact that you will not decide on anything at all. In the end, if you make a decision - it’s an absolutely impossible thing, then toss a coin.