Every married couple dreams of an ideal relationship. There are many examples of such unions. It would be a mistake to consider that emotional comfort in a family is formed on its own. Any psychologist will say that ideal relationships are the result of hard work, and mutual.
So that an ideal relationship does not seem utopian, you need to follow the rules that help to establish a deteriorated relationship.
The bad should be forgotten, and the good should be remembered.
If you do not focus on the little things, then implement this recommendation will not be difficult. An incorrectly hung towel or an incorrectly washed cup should not cause conflict. It is from such trifles that a mountain of misunderstandings grows that are difficult to overcome.
You need to trust each other.
Happy relationships are based on trust. Sometimes, spouses forget about each other's personal space. Therefore, they begin to check the memory of a mobile phone or read correspondence on social networks.
If distrust is justified, clandestine activity will lead to nothing. A frank conversation is much more effective. It happens that the spouse has a virtual friend with the goal of flirting. In this case, you should understand that the problem did not arise from scratch. This is a signal that the relationship lacks romance.
Forgiving is an important part of a happy relationship.
Not everyone can sincerely forgive. Whatever happens in the family, one must remember the consequences. If the purpose of the offense is not parting, forgiveness is inevitable, because the guilty party will want to free themselves from guilt in any way, and often not in favor of the family.
A shared passion is the path to renewing relationships.
To get closer to each other, you can find a common activity or hobby. It can be morning walks on bicycles, or a parachute jump. Dancing, drawing, a master class in culinary art bring together and make communication interesting.
You need to sleep in one bed.
Over time, the couple move away from each other. Emotional intimacy is not immediately lost. One of the signs that a relationship needs to be reanimated is falling asleep in different beds.
A gentle hug at the end of the day is much more important than sex. Families who understand the need to sleep together are considered strong and happy.
You need to put up immediately after the quarrel.
Resentment cannot be left "for later". Before morning comes, you need to make peace. As practice shows, over time, asking for forgiveness is more difficult. The main thing is peace in the family, which is achieved through compromises and mutual understanding.