They talk a lot about addiction, but do not consider addiction in relationships. Creating relationships, people often confuse addiction with love, which leads to jealousy.
Life is full of surprises and paradoxes. Many have heard about the existence of such a type of interaction as addiction. It is precisely in this way of interaction that paradoxes are present.
Pronounced dependencies are manifested in the use of drugs, alcohol and tobacco. Two contradictory directions are immediately promoted in society. First, the image of a person who successfully solves his problems only through the use of drugs, alcohol and tobacco has been created in the media and films. In a similar way, the images of the behavior of a person who successfully solves his tasks are modeled and prescribed in the subconscious. The second is the promotion of a healthy lifestyle in programs and on Internet channels.
Less pronounced dependencies result in following fashion trends, from clothing to lifestyle. Such a need is created by advertising. In society, it becomes the norm that a person constantly wants something within the limits of the advertised product.
There is a hidden addiction that people generally perceive as good and are called in other words, such as love, jealousy, passion.
Very often they met the expression that I love and I can’t live without this person, or I feel so bad without him, so I have nothing to do with love. This is a manifestation of a form of addiction. Dependence always causes a feeling of jealousy, passion, adoration and fanaticism. A person has thoughts about how to get it or keep it at any cost, even to the detriment of others or oneself.
In relationships with the opposite sex, in most cases they are built on dependence. For example, a young man lived and did not go anywhere, uncommunicative. Then he met a girl who is active and loves sports and socializing with other people. A guy through a girl discovers a completely different world. And when you discover opportunities for yourself, a feeling of lightness and inspiration is born. It is these feelings that people take for love. The appearance of the girl and the discovery of opportunities the subconscious connects, and the person begins to believe that another person gives him the opportunity. This is how psychological dependence is formed, which manifests itself in jealousy in relationships.
If a young man believes that he receives opportunities from a girl, then he will hold on to her with all his might in order to have these opportunities. Suffering begins when a person who opens up opportunities leaves.
If a young man realizes that he always has these opportunities, then he will not have suffering and jealousy for the girl.
Addiction is a way to control other people. Now the thinking of a dependent person is being formed in order to develop the consumption of goods more and more. It is easier for dependent people to offer and sell what is profitable and cheap to produce and not to take into account the real needs of people.