Each person begins with a family, because it is the parents who lay in the child the basic concepts of kindness. Then people are educated by society, culture and the environment. Kindness is the quality that every person has. But sometimes kindness is suppressed in oneself. This happens from fear, resentment, or when a person defends himself from a once experienced very strong feeling of pain. If life brought you to such a person, then not everything is lost, there are ways to make him kinder.
Instruction manual
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First, figure out what qualities are inherent in a good person. This is generosity, friendliness, responsiveness, tact, attentiveness, cheerfulness, sympathy. A good person knows how to forgive, accept people as they are, and always comes to the rescue.
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Start with yourself and do a good deed for a person. Show an example, start a chain reaction of this quality. The truth is said by the proverb: "Near gold and copper turns yellow. Near a good person and a bad one is getting better."
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Involve a person in good deeds. Invite to participate in the community work day, plant pine trees in the forest, clean the beach strip from debris. Huge groups of people around the world are involved in environmental and social programs to help people and the planet.
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Encourage the good deeds of man. But only sincerely. Admire his actions and actions. Support his good undertakings. Perhaps the person wants to do something good, but to start, he needs support and company. Give him your hand.
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When helping a person, be sincere and selfless. Do not emphasize your merit and importance. Otherwise, you may cause a backlash. At the same time, a person can feel anger and indignation.
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Tell a person that he is kind, helpful, understanding, doing good and necessary things. "As you call a yacht, it will sail." A person is inclined to consider himself exactly the way others see him. At first he may be surprised, but internally he will agree with this.
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In any case, it’s important not to overdo it. By your kindness you can also do harm. You cannot force a person to do good deeds against his will. If the first time you did not succeed, just continue to shine like the sun, warming this person. After all, the sun warms whether it is deservedly or not. It shines just like that.