One of the most difficult tasks in human life is the search for his vocation. An incorrectly chosen profession can literally spoil life, fill it with longing and despondency. In order not to be in such a situation, it is necessary to determine your main life goals in time.
The main difficulty in choosing a profession is that you have to do it at a fairly young age. In this case, the opinion of parents, friends, and other people authoritative for a boy or girl, as a rule, has a great influence. Choosing a profession under their influence, one can hardly hope for happiness, peace of mind.
So how should you make a choice? The most important rule is to listen to your soul - no matter how corny it sounds. Evaluate what you like, what you really want, what you enjoy doing. Do not think about money at this stage - just try to find out what your soul wants. Remember: if the soul suffers, if it cannot get what it likes, what it wants, no money, prestige, fame can compensate for this.
So just listen to yourself. Do you like plants? Think about becoming a grower or a botanist, the exact choice depends on your preference. Do you like to communicate with people, help them? Then the profession of a psychologist may suit you. There are many options, and it is very important to find among them the one that you really like.
It is important to understand that it is impossible to realize oneself, to become happy in an unloved profession. Man is created for creativity in all its forms, to realize oneself in the profession means to reach some heights, to achieve something. It is achievements that make a person happy, allow him to feel that he does not live in vain.
To better understand yourself, write down everything you like on a piece of paper. Do not indulge yourself - exclude expressions like "lie under a palm tree and do nothing." This is not a list of your pleasures, but an activity that gives you joy and that has prospects for growth and development. For example, you like taking pictures - what prevents you from making a hobby a profession? I like to draw, you can do it - think about the vocation of the artist. You write well, fold it with pleasure and add words - perhaps the future literary genius disappears in you.
Having written down your priorities on the sheet, evaluate them. Try to understand what is frivolous, superficial, and what really comes from the depths of the soul. The absence of what you are really drawn to causes a heartbroken sadness. If you realize that this is exactly what you cannot live without, you can be congratulated, you have found your path.
And do not be afraid if your dream seems difficult to achieve. When you go to what the soul wants, the world begins to help you, even the most incredible projects become possible. Therefore, just believe in yourself, go to your dream, and one day you will definitely experience an indescribable moment of happiness - you could, you have succeeded. You are the winner!