Many marriages end sadly, that is, by divorce. Why is this happening? Let us turn to the exact science of statistical research.
A ten-year term is the hardest one. The first ten years are traditionally and statistically considered the most dangerous for a marriage.
If people managed to live together for 35 years, then the probability of divorce approaches zero. People get divorced for various reasons - housekeeping, financial issues, sex life.
And if they fail to solve problems in the first ten years of their life together, then they will be parted. Sometimes a marriage can save a conscious decision to live together for several more years - usually the situation improves, and the couple accepts congratulations at least at a silver wedding.
But there are spouses who do not need conscious decisions — they are together because they are happy with everything. They probably have a secret, many will think. Yes, he is, but he is not at all scary.
Friendship around the head
Canadian researchers, calling for impartial figures to help, found that the happiest marriages are based on friendship. Unexpectedly, but it is she who helps spouses to maintain warmth and mutual respect for decades. It does not matter what the root cause of the marriage was - love or calculation, if the relationship develops into a real friendship, the partners have every chance to keep them for decades.
What is marriage friendship? This is mutual support and sincerity, the separation of worries and joys, fears and successes. The second important factor is the awareness of the need for a relationship, because people who have a couple are obviously much happier than single people, no matter what they say.
If you understand that marriage is an important part of life, then the desire to save it will become stronger. Interestingly, the happiness of partners did not depend on the degree of official marriage - people can simply cohabit with each other or have a document with a seal and a common name, it doesn’t matter.
Sleep together. It is very important that the couple share one bed. And it is equally important that they fall asleep together. Sometimes it is difficult for owls and larks to adapt to each other, but this does not mean that you do not need to try. Willingness to adapt to your soul mate even in such a trifle says a lot.
It is also important to sleep as close to each other as possible. In fact, the physical distance between partners indicates the degree of their spiritual rapprochement - they are proportional. If you sleep, hugging, or at least touching each other in a dream - this is an ideal option that promises a long and happy friendly marriage.