Sometimes a young man in his life faced such a problem as a fear of meeting a girl he liked. It would seem that he’s not bad by himself, confident in his position and status and has everything to make his relations strong, having a certain base. But, as a boy, he was lost, forgot, could not
Fear of girls is due to some psychological problems.
Why did the guy start to be afraid of beautiful women?
Considering the causes of the problem of men’s fear of women, it is worth starting with the fear of any guy being humiliated due to failure. Whatever the youth is, the principle is "to taste and color
."no one has canceled. Here, male pride plays a role here. It is very important for a man to be a leader, to have some authority in front of the ladies, but when he refuses them, he can experience negative emotions.
The second reason is the issue of financial insolvency. Seeing a well-groomed, using expensive cosmetics, decently and fashionably dressed girl, the young man wonders that his financial situation is much lower than her needs.
The third reason is the idea that she probably has someone. She is beautiful, she smells of charm and refinement, so why should she be alone? Surely there is already someone who took a place in the heart of a beautiful woman.
The fourth psychological barrier is insecurity in appearance; in essence, it is a fear of aesthetic mismatch of an individual due to the style or obvious cheapness of clothing, hair, shoes, accessories, in some cases - in a car or apartment, which a young man has, who like clothes, show its external essence.
And finally, the last problem is the fear of intellectual discrepancy. Everyone knows that the established opinion “All great men were men” makes some guys think that his companion should be at least less erudite than he is.
So there is a stumbling block when in an outside conversation it turns out that the lady is much smarter than the one who paid her close attention to her.