How many real friends do you have? Friendship, like love, must pass the test. Are you sure your friends will help you? I wonder if all your friends are worried about you.
In today's world, it’s hard to trust others. In life, you have to learn to recognize the enemy, because most often they are near us. In the pursuit of love, money, family, we forget about friendship, and sometimes you can only count on the help of a friend. How can I check whether sincere friendship? On average, a person has only 3-4 true friends, whom he fully trusts. Do you really think more? Some do not even have one faithful friend, but only colleagues, family, acquaintances and false friends. Is it possible to check how a person truly treats you? Let's find out how many really good museums you have.
1. Ask for a loan
It seems simple. Each definitely borrowed at least a small amount. But why do not you ask to borrow a large amount and come up with a really important reason. For example, that you urgently need money for treatment. Well, if a person is good, then he will find a way to help you, even get into debt for your sake. I have only 2 of these friends. Maybe you have more decent friends in your environment. Judging from my experience, people in this situation will think primarily about themselves. When I checked my friends like this, some began to ignore me, others discussed me behind my back, others spared me, but said that they could not help. And my favorite: "Now I do not lend money. After all, they did not give me the last time." But it was not me, but we were friends for ten years, and with these words this man crossed out all our friendship. It made me think about people I used to trust. Naturally there were friends who helped me, but there were fewer of them.
2. You have nowhere to live
Imagine that you quarreled with a loved one or parents. You have nowhere to go and besides, you don’t know how long you will have to live outside the house. Who is the first to offer to come to him and help in difficult times. It doesn’t matter what problems your friend has or how much living space. A friend will think about you first. Is a friend ready to shelter you? Or maybe friends will not try to find a way out of this situation. Many are not hospitable now and it is frustrating. Why do you need those who do not need to worry about your problems?