Many girls are too jealous of their guys. Sometimes there are reasons for this, but most often it is nothing more than a fantasy. Such baseless jealousy can greatly harm relationships. Until this happens, try to get rid of jealousy.
Instruction manual
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To begin with, figure out what jealousy is based on - pretexts and assumptions or on well-defined facts? If everything is clear with the facts, then the prepositions can be interpreted in two ways. After all, your boyfriend’s regular meetings with friends can be just meetings with friends, and not serve as a cover for treason. Therefore, before setting up jealousy scenes, ask yourself if you have evidence of treason? If there are none, then you should not show jealousy for the guy, while arranging a stormy showdown. In the end, your lover may be tired of making excuses for what he did not do. And he might think that since you are so sure of his infidelity, then even if you have reason for that.
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You should not go to the other extreme, that is, suffer in silence. Your boyfriend will still notice that something is wrong. And his constant attempts to unravel the causes of your depressed mood are unlikely to benefit your relationship. In the worst case scenario, your boyfriend will simply get tired of worrying about what he did wrong and that he would prefer a break. To prevent this from happening, openly talk about how you feel. Only without scandals and accusations. Confess that you are jealous. But emphasize at the same time that this feeling confuses you. Such a heart-to-heart talk can be one of the most effective ways to overcome jealousy for you. Because most adequate guys will immediately rush to voluntarily dispel all doubts of their beloved girl.
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If frank conversations with a guy help defeat jealousy, but then it flares up with renewed vigor, you will have to do a lot of work on yourself. This is not very pleasant, but you have to admit to yourself that the reason for jealousy lies in your own complexes and stereotypes. It could be anything. You may be used to believing that all the guys are cheating or too unsure of themselves and their attractiveness. Be that as it may, you will have to work on yourself, as a rare guy will agree to build a relationship with a girl who does not trust him and puts his fears. When you manage to overcome your complexes and stereotypes, then you will be able to cope with jealousy.