Psychologists say that in most cases, a lie can be determined. No matter how hard the lying person tries, his body will send certain “beacons” on the subconscious damage that he is trying to deceive. And you can find out that they tell you a lie simply by observing the face of the interlocutor.
Instruction manual
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Children, when they tell a lie, cover their mouth with their palm. At a later age, this habit persists in a person. When he tries to cheat, his hands on a subconscious level reach out to his mouth. But with the mind, a person understands that one cannot do this. And therefore, trying to change the movement. That is, if your interlocutor constantly touches the face with your hand during a conversation, this is one of the first signs that you are being lied to. But a single case does not mean anything, a person can really comb his nose. Therefore, observe carefully so as not to make hasty conclusions.
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If during the whole conversation a person supports his chin with his hand, this may also indicate that he is trying to deceive you. Usually this pose looks like this: the thumb is on the cheek, the palm covers part of the lips.
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Look at the look on your face. If a person speaks the truth, his words correspond to facial expressions. For example, he says that he is happy and smiles. If a person is lying, his speech does not match the expression on his face or emotions appear asynchronously. For example, he says that he is very pleased, but a smile on his face appears a few seconds earlier or later (which happens more often) of these words.
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Observe the look of the interlocutor. If he is lying, he will most likely avoid looking into your face. Men who tell lies often look at the floor, and women at the ceiling. If your interlocutor is familiar with non-verbal psychology, then he, on the contrary, can constantly look you in the eye, proving that he is true.
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Learn the emotions of the interlocutor. If he lies, then they will change dramatically. For example, he just sat with a frown, and after a second he smiles, but the smile also disappears suddenly. A person who has been told something pleasant or fun begins to show emotions gradually. First, an expression of joy appears in the eyes, then small facial wrinkles appear, and only then does a sincere and open smile appear on the face. She also descends gradually. In a person who is trying to cheat, emotions change dramatically.
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The lying person’s smile is insincere, only lips are involved, but his eyes remain cold. Or it may be asymmetrical when only one half of the mouth is smiling. This applies to the manifestation of almost all emotions. Asymmetric facial expression most often indicates that a person is trying to lie. The right and left sides of the face are influenced by various hemispheres of the brain. The left hemisphere controls the thoughts and speech of a person, the right is responsible for emotions. The work of the right hemisphere is reflected in the left half of the face. Therefore, if you want to understand whether you are lying or not, pay more attention to this part.