During communication, a person makes little self-conscious gestures that express his thoughts. The interlocutor perceives this gesture, but most often does not analyze it. However, with the help of facial expressions and gestures even more information is transmitted than with the help of words. For more effective communication, you should learn to "read" unexpressed thoughts.
Instruction manual
one
If a person crosses his arms over his chest, then this gesture should be understood as closure or protection. He either does not want to be frank in the conversation, or is afraid of something.
2
Hands clasped in the lock and wound behind the head, decode as superiority over the interlocutor. Hands on the sides mean a feeling of rebellion.
3
Understand categorical, decisive rejection or disagreement, if there is a sharp go-ahead with the right hand. Gesturing with a clenched fist shows the composure, determination, activity, and ambition of a communication partner.
4
Open arms, showing palms to the interlocutor mean openness, frankness. You can believe this interlocutor, he is telling the truth. If your hands are hidden in your pockets or laid back, then you should not trust the spoken words.
5
Be attentive to the words of the interlocutor, if he rubs his forehead, chin, tries to cover his mouth with his hands, looks away. He is trying to hide something from you or is telling a lie.
6
Be careful of gestures with clasped fingers. The interlocutor is trying to hide a negative attitude or distrust towards you.
7
Know that a person doubts and is not sure what you are saying when his hand begins to scratch the side of his neck.
eight
End the conversation or move on to another topic if your interlocutor nervously taps his fingers on the table, or with his foot on the floor, the leg of the chair. If he props his cheek with his hands, then know that your partner is bored or wandering away from the topic of conversation.
9
Be prepared for the fact that a person is ready to leave immediately if he sits on the edge of a chair.
ten
If your chat partner is rubbing an eyelid, then consider it a desire to block the flow of unpleasant information.
eleven
Remember that the mismatch of words and thoughts manifests itself externally, a person can only briefly control his gestures. A careful interlocutor can find out the true intentions of a person and not allow him to manipulate himself.