Breaking up always hurts. Self-esteem falls, good mood disappears, inside there is only emptiness and a million questions. And it’s hard even to imagine that love can again be, but with a different one. Sometimes this state lasts for years of loneliness and torment. It will be difficult to trust another person again and open your heart to meet.
You did not expect a break, it hurts you, but you will not return anything. Accept this fact, instead of thinking for years about what caused it. Or is it still in vain to believe that everything can be different. This is just an illusion, a dream, and you live this dream, scrolling through the thoughts of different options. Better take it as a fact. You broke up and you need to learn to live on without him. This experience is invaluable, important, but you no longer need to carry it as a flag. Everything sooner or later passes, the pain will lose its strength. And perhaps after some time, you even hardly remember this.
Perhaps this is not the first gap in life, you do not need to put an end to yourself. This is experience and it is necessary. As a result, a person becomes wiser, more cunning, stronger and richer in soul.
Do not intentionally seek new relationships, but be prepared that someday they will arise. Seeking a new relationship, you risk falling into the trap of new pain and disappointment. Take care of your life, think less about it, do more for yourself. Try to unload your brains to the maximum, so as not to think about a break. Most likely, he is already busy looking for another, and you are wasting your mental energy thinking about him. Do not already give such a stranger such gifts. Your relationship has reached the finals and there is nothing to return, he does not want.
Build a new relationship or not? What are the benefits of your loneliness. Maybe you are still missing something. Sex, emotions, brightness of life. Do not think about how to start and what the new relationship will be. When they appear, everything will be clear anyway. The main thing is that you can believe another person, open up to him. Give my heart and love again.
Parting is inevitable, as are new meetings. Both that and another brings a variety into your life, does it brighter and more saturated. Do not be afraid to start over. It will hurt, but you will also feel happiness and love.