In order to change our personal lives, to move up the corporate ladder or just to get a lot of pleasant experiences, we all have to communicate with other people. Indeed, if we cannot speak positively with others, then we will not be able to gain authority in society, make new friends and acquaintances.
Instruction manual
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For many people, the main problem is that they simply cannot start a conversation. In fact, in order to start a conversation with someone, you do not need to be a genius of communication. It is enough to be sincere and follow some basic rules. And yet, naturalness is the most important thing. Remember the famous expression: "What is natural is not ugly." If you are sincere, the most "harmful" people will be revealed to you.
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To start a conversation successfully, you must be interested in it. The easiest way to start a conversation is to get interested in something. Let's say you find out that your work colleague is fond of diving. If you always wanted a thrill, and attracted underwater expanses, then this reason for conversation is almost perfect. Remember, all people really like to feel their worth. Tell a colleague that you always wanted to go diving, but do not know where to start. He will surely tell you a lot of new and interesting, perhaps even provide all possible assistance. The most important thing is that you will become much better at understanding each other (and soon make friends).
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Intrigue is also a great way to interest an interlocutor and start a conversation. Tell me some provocative fact (it can be an event, a book, a film, a quote), which is very difficult for a sane person to agree with. It should be something that really hooks a person, hurts his feelings. For example, girls are more interested in the topic of relationships, and men are more interested in wealth and status, and career.
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If you want to regularly communicate with many people and be able to naturally start a conversation, you need to practice a lot. Most Russian cities have special discussion clubs where you can not only learn to talk on any topic, meet interesting people, but also train your oratory skills. Joining such a club is guaranteed to contribute to your development.