The support of loved ones and faith in oneself help a person to be realized. Without these things, it’s hard to set goals and go towards them. But if this is not the case, then no need to be upset. You can learn to increase self-esteem and help yourself without relying on others.
Of course, most of the great people had someone behind them. But this does not mean that they will not begin to believe in you. It is important only at the first stage to achieve a result that will be noticeable to others, and then everyone will appreciate and begin to support. Go to the goal confidently and clearly, and everything will work out.
How to start believing in yourself
Only that faith helps, which is based on real facts. You can correctly evaluate yourself only when you have real achievements, knowledge or skills. Just believing is not enough, you need to be able to do something. Therefore, choose the area where you will develop, and begin to improve. Read books, watch trainings and seminars, practice something. And at some point you will become a specialist in this field. It is the understanding that you are well versed that will give you strong faith. Of course, the process will take some time, but it is important that this happens.
Start reading success stories books. This helps a lot to strengthen our position. You will learn how others went towards the goal, how they made efforts. Such publications contain a lot of useful tips that can be applied in practice. And understanding that someone succeeded will help you to go this way too.
Stop looking for flaws in yourself. There are no ideal people; everyone has weaknesses. But you need to develop virtues, make them brighter and more in demand, and not think about what does not work. Someone knows how to speak in public, someone is well versed in technology, someone manages to create beauty with his hands. It is not necessary to be a master in all directions, it is only important to master ideally one thing that brings pleasure and works best.