It is no coincidence that women's groups are sometimes compared with a jar full of spiders. Indeed, such organizations have their own specifics. Women are much more attentive and intolerant of other people's shortcomings than men, and therefore they do not forgive mistakes. How to work in a women's team and not become a victim of gossip and slander?
There is an opinion that the collective, in which mainly women work, is a real serpentarium. It is in such collectives that it is customary to be friends, not guided by any common interests, but, as they say, "against someone." There are certain rules, playing in accordance with which, you can organically join the women's team and work in it for a long time without loss for your psyche and self-esteem.
How to become your own in the women's team?
A girl who has heard about all the "charms" of working in a women's team may seem right to keep aloof and not let herself be drawn into any conversations on topics not related to work. In fact, such behavior is unlikely to lead to anything good. Women instinctively feel hostility towards those who shy away from them, and they will certainly begin to plot and intrigue against such a colleague. Ultimately, this can ruin her reputation, which can even lead to dismissal.
Learn to find a common language with colleagues. Unobtrusively find out what each of them is interested in, and use your knowledge in conversations with them. Take an interest in the opinions of colleagues on various issues - they are pleased to feel authoritative. People are very warm about those who are interested in them, and you can use this feature of the human psyche to your advantage.
Consider how to find a common language with the boss and her secretaries. Even if intrigues and provocations directed against you take place, a good attitude of the authorities towards you will guarantee that you will not lose.
In no case do not dissolve gossip and do not take part in how others gossip. Women are able to turn everything upside down and make you guilty, breaking even a few phrases you uttered from the context of the conversation. Do not put yourself at risk of becoming a victim of provocation and do not show interest in even the most “rumored” rumors.