All people are different and express their feelings in different ways. It largely depends on the character and upbringing. A person who is accustomed to controlling himself is always lost if another person needs to be informed about his attitude. When you are in love, but used to restrain yourself, you must reveal your feelings so that the one you love does not doubt your love and can answer them. In this case, you need to overcome your shyness and fear of failure, and this is always not easy.
Instruction manual
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First of all, realize that there will be nothing for you - you will not be punished and will not be condemned. It’s quite natural for adults to inform each other about their feelings, even if they are not very pleasant, it is honest and inspires respect. It will be even more pleasant to hear words about love. Even if you cannot be reciprocated, your action will be appreciated.
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Do not immediately talk about your great love, so as not to frighten the girl on her scale. Do not immediately offer constant meetings and serious relationships, which all the same imply that for this you need to get to know each other better. Tell her that you really like and interest her, ask for a meeting to talk to. Such a meeting does not oblige the girl to anything, and she will probably agree.
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Use your first date to the maximum to get to know her better and make sure that you really like her. Take an interest in yourself. Ask about her hobbies and interests, observe how she talks about them, express your interest and enthusiasm, it is always pleasant. Give the girl compliments, but do not overdo it: they should be sincere and relate to real virtues.
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At the end of the meeting, say that you really enjoyed the time spent together and would like to continue such confidential communication. Seeing a girl away, you can kiss her goodbye on the cheek, now all friends exchange such kisses. If she wants to take the initiative, know how to feel it and kiss her for real. Just control yourself and don't scare her with your pent-up passion. It can be demonstrated next time.
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If you have received consent to the next date, then you can already fully disclose your feelings on it, then this will look like the result of a thoughtful analysis of those undoubted advantages that the girl showed on the first date. She will be flattering, and in any case, she will listen to you with great pleasure.