To get what you want and change your life for the better, you need to set goals and be able to achieve them. Not all people have enough emotional power to do this. Strengthening internal resources is possible if you work on yourself.
Instruction manual
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Perhaps a person got too much without effort. If he is used to receiving material wealth, a high social status and other indicators of success just like that, why should he try? But a period may come when circumstances will change dramatically, and a person has no ability to achieve goals.
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People of a different type are accustomed to go with the flow and live as it turns out, not wanting more. Often these settings are received from parents. Until a certain moment, there is nothing wrong with this attitude to life. If a person has everything necessary for an average level of existence and he is satisfied with this, then, on the one hand, let everything remain so. However, on the other hand, without development it is impossible not only to go forward, but also to remain in place. A person who does not seek to improve his life runs the risk of being in a deplorable position.
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Some people do not allow themselves to dream about something. Perhaps they could set themselves a high goal, and achieve it. But they have a subconscious blocking of some serious desires. Perhaps the problem here is not only laziness, but also low self-esteem. Sometimes it’s worth believing that you are worthy of everything you dream about.
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You can start to set goals and achieve them little by little. Write a list daily for what you would like to receive or do. Let it be trifles. But in this way you will awaken in yourself a thirst for life, the ability to understand your needs and faith in your own abilities.