Popular people easily make acquaintances and quickly become the soul of the company. They know how to like and do not remain alone, unless they themselves want it. Those who by nature are not given without particular difficulty to achieve popularity, can work on themselves and develop the necessary qualities.
Instruction manual
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Be self-sufficient and value yourself. This is not about pride and arrogance - they only repel people. You just need to combine contentment with a constant desire for self-improvement. Trying to please all people, without exception, is pointless: you will not only not achieve your goal, but also lower your self-esteem. If you want to become popular, learn to love yourself and get used to the idea that you will have ill-wishers.
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Be optimistic. This attracts people, moreover, fun people will see in you "your boyfriend", and pessimists - a person who can solve problems and provide assistance in any situation. Wit and a charming smile conquer. But be careful and do not become a jester who makes himself a laughing stock. Strengthen your sense of humor and healthy optimism with self-confidence.
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Be interesting. People can be attracted by your knowledge, character traits, worldviews, etc., therefore, the line of behavior should be chosen depending on the preferences of your “target audience”. Your opinion should be valuable and interesting, as well as your advice. Learn to maintain a conversation, look for an approach to each person with whom you communicate, and will reach out to you. Be in public more often so that you are not forgotten.
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Serve yourself right. While no one knows how interesting and wonderful you are, you won’t succeed. Be bolder, meet and communicate with people, do not be afraid to offer your help if necessary, demonstrate your talents. The main thing is to radiate confidence and know that you are worthy of the love and respect of others.
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Stay yourself. Mockery annoys and repels - the more natural you are, the better. No need to try to please people with whom you have nothing in common, and even more so to those who are unpleasant to you. Learn to choose the right environment and find people with similar interests and preferences, so that you do not have to constantly pretend and play someone else's role.