Do you sometimes think that your life is chaos? Would you like to restore order in it? This is not as difficult as it might seem at first glance, and I will tell you how to do it. Some things may seem commonplace, but be that as it may, commonplace is often true.
Instruction manual
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So. Stop. Just slow down a bit to think about your life and what you are doing and why. Of course, if you are currently busy with a really important thing, finish it and save some time to think about your life, about its present, future and past. This is really important, because very often we plunge into the bustle of affairs, forgetting about the very meaning of our actions. A person who slowly follows the right course will reach the goal faster than one who quickly goes the wrong.
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Have you stopped? We move on. Determine what goals in life you pursue. But let us immediately clarify that all people in this world have one global goal - to be happy, or rather, to get as much happiness as possible in life and beyond. Take for example two people. The first one plays computer games all day long, the second one is a big altruist and helps people in third world countries. Everything is clear with the first one - he plays games because he wants to, because he is happy when he plays them. The second - a seemingly real altruist, lives not for his own sake, but for the sake of others. But let's take a closer look at it. He helps people, why? Because he wants it so, no one forces him to do it and he does not have a special need to be an altruist, but he still does what he does. He is satisfied with his need, his happiness is to feel himself as some special member of this society. And so everywhere and everywhere. The primary goal of all people is to satisfy their needs, to receive happiness from this.
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So, we understood. We all have a common goal - to be happy, now we need to specify the goals. In fact, people become happy because of something, whether it’s buying a new thing or passing an exam at the institute. For example, you can come up with similar goals: create a happy family, lead a healthy lifestyle, get a diploma of higher education, etc. Let the wording of some goals not bother you - the main thing is that you understand what you want to achieve. Do not forget that all goals are hierarchical. Obtaining the same diploma may have sub-goals: passing an exam, practicing practice, etc.
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We move on: in addition to goals, it would be nice to have a certain list of achievements that you want to accomplish. For example, in computer games, the achievement “to complete a task on a high level of difficulty” may be indicated, but you can come up with something that interests you, for example, among life achievements, there may be something like a trip to Easter Island or writing a book. In general, treating yourself as a game character is to some extent helpful. You constantly “pump” your character, why don't you start “pumping” yourself? In the game, your hero can have skills, abilities and experience, just as you, for example, can develop your skills in psychology, programming, etc. Achievements will help you realize why you are doing what you are doing now, and in your old age look at the list of what you have achieved and smile at the fact that life has not been lived in vain.
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So, we have determined that the basis of the foundations is goals and endless branches of subgoals. What to do next? Everything is simple and banal. To do what is more important. I'll explain now. A person has an infinite number of activities and activities. If a person says that he has nothing to do, he is deeply mistaken. Classes are always there and their infinite number. The main thing here is to understand that, unfortunately, there are 24 hours in a day and you will have to select the main things and discard the less important ones. Is your goal to get rich and ride a Ferrari? So, for you, the priority are classes that bring profit, such as starting your own business. Thus, in your subconscious mind you should have a peculiar stream of cases sorted by the level of importance for you, which is constantly changing (things can also lose and gain their significance over time). In order to somehow memorize the main points and not keep everything in mind, it is very useful to write things down, take some notes, etc.
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Here, in principle, the whole basic concept of the systematization of life. There are an infinite number of subtleties that you yourself can solve for yourself, principles that are right for you, based on your aspirations. Live and win in life, because you are a winner in life. I know that for sure.
note
In no case should one be too fond of recording your affairs and notes, because very often the time you spend on recording unimportant affairs you could spend more profitably, for example, by doing this very thing.
Useful advice
Think about your life more often, because in reality you have a lot of time while you, for example, wash, brush your teeth or wash the dishes. Analyze everything that happens and try to change your life so that everything in your life is good.