Many women do not consider themselves sexual. But sexuality is not external data, but how a woman feels in contact with the world. And sexuality, like any sensation, can be developed in yourself.
Each woman is sexual, but not everyone can properly manifest it. Very few women who are inherent in sexuality literally from birth. In the rest, it develops with experience, gradually. As a woman learns herself, her sensual and emotional sides, she becomes more self-confident and sexier. That is why mature women are often perceived as sexier than young girls.
If you opened this article, it means that you do not feel sexual or unhappy with the degree of manifestation of this sexuality in you. In this regard, we suggest that you do not waste time evaluating your sexuality and go directly to practical techniques designed to help you develop and manifest your natural sexuality as brightly as possible.
1. Develop sensuality
Sensations are where sexuality begins. Touch yourself, listen to the sensations. How do you feel at the point of contact? Recognize each sensation: a feeling of warmth, a feeling of pressure, a feeling of softness on the fingers. Focus all attention on the place of contact. What emotions do you associate with this sensation, what emotions are you experiencing at the moment?
The same thing needs to be done when your partner is concerned. Immerse yourself completely in the sensation of touching it.
2. Learn your physiology
25% of women never have an orgasm in their life. In order not to fall into this category, study not only your body for erogenous zones, but also articles and books on female anatomy. This will help you better understand your body.
3. Practice erotic fantasies
Select an object. It can be a physically attractive colleague or your favorite actor, anyway. Imagine how you have sex with him. What is his skin to the touch. How he behaves in bed, whether he is aggressive or perhaps gentle. Imagine what his body looks like, how it touches you, what you would feel with these touches.
Sexual fantasies help to relax and develop sensuality.
4. Work on increasing libido
There are special practices for this. A properly selected menu will also help you, as there are specific products responsible for sexual desire.
5. Flirt
Of course, no one means looking gaze, shouting "well, pay attention to me!" Despair is by no means an attractive trait. When a woman has a regular sexual partner, she does not need to try to be sexy for other men. If a woman is single, she should learn to respond to men's attention. Many of us do not do this, since we consider such behavior indecent, and coquetry something dirty and defiant. To get started, try to get rid of these internal barriers by starting to respond favorably to men's attention. If this does not work, seek the help of a psychologist, he will help you deal with internal barriers.
6. Admire yourself
When looking at yourself in the mirror, do not scold yourself for a crease on your stomach or stretch marks. Take it for granted. Try to understand that, by and large, a man will not give a damn about your minor flaws, and relax. Think that you are beautiful and that many women dream of a body like yours. Sometimes a comparison can do you some good.