An intolerant attitude towards someone else's point of view can cause many conflict situations. In order not to be considered a person with a difficult character, they try to avoid communication with whom, you need to learn to be tolerant.
Instruction manual
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Assume the idea that different views are possible. People who do not tolerate objections, as a rule, have excessive self-esteem and consider their point of view to be the only true one. They refuse even to think that other people's views may be correct. However, it is a great fallacy to divide the world into white and black. Psychologists note that disagreements do not mean contradictions. It happens that one problem has several solutions, and it is not always known in advance which approach will bring greater success. Therefore, sometimes it is useful not only to give the right to express an opinion, but also to admit that perhaps someone's non-standard approach may be the best solution.
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Please note that all people have the right to their own opinions. Show respect and give others the opportunity to express their position. At the same time, keep calm and do not take it as a personal insult when your views are opposite. In any case, even if your opponent is not right, give him an opinion, and then bring your own. You can prove your case by giving convincing arguments, and at the same time you will not be recognized as a conflict person.
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Avoid criticism and shortcuts. The habit of criticizing others and hanging labels on everyone is a feature of stereotyped thinking. You can notice the shortcomings of others for yourself, but you do not have to spend your emotions and energy on clarifying relationships. Do not try to think in a set of cliches and create irreconcilable and unambiguous images in your presentation. Realize that sometimes people can change and understand that they were wrong. Learn to accept others as they are, and if possible forgive their mistakes.
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Try to take the place of your opponent and try on his situation. Perhaps your actions in such a case would be much tougher. Strive to be restrained and friendly to people. Try to notice more positive qualities and not to show hostility.
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Live your life. An intolerant attitude towards people manifests itself in comparing oneself with other people. As a result, a person is constantly in a state of competition, gives an assessment of all actions and believes that he would do better. Do not judge other people, but live your own life. Give others the right to live as they see fit: make their decisions, achieve goals, and learn from their own mistakes. Focus on your plans and learn to live in harmony with the world and yourself.