If you try to imagine that human life is a series of "small games", then your future fate depends on how the score is formed. Unfortunately, the ability to win is not given to every person, but over time it can be developed and achieve victories.
You will need
pen, leaf
Instruction manual
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Stop being scared. Fear is the enemy of victory. Agree, hiding in a corner and hiding from a problem that scares you is not the most rational thought. The problem must be solved so that the result of your actions will please you. Look fear in the "eyes." Take a piece of paper and write down what exactly scares you in a particular situation. Analyze each item and find all possible solutions. Highlight the positive points. You must do everything so that fear ceases to be a deterrent.
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Do not put off important matters. Plan your time so that there are no more cases than you can do. Victory is possible only when all your actions are thought out and operational.
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Tear down the "walls" erected by self-doubt. Such situations arise when a person faces a difficult task. In this case, the “wall” feeds on his doubts, insecurity, and sometimes laziness. In order to destroy it, deal with the solution to this problem closely, make it a priority. Imagine you are entering cold water. If you enter slowly, then it will take you a lot of time, and with each step the water will seem colder and colder. In this case, it is better to immediately plunge with your head and swim. In just a few minutes, the water will become warm for you, and swimming will be a great pleasure. So, the sooner you start a battle, the faster it will end in your favor.
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Analyze your actions. After resolving the situation, figure out what your actions determined its outcome. Be honest with yourself. If you win, remember what tricks you used to apply them in your practice in the future. If this time you lose, calm down and pay attention to the reasons for the defeat. Let this be an invaluable experience for you.
Useful advice
The main victory is a victory over oneself.