No need to be afraid to reveal yourself to a person, this is not so scary. Communicate with him more, do not be afraid to disappoint him and do not try to seem like who you are not.
Instruction manual
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You need to understand what prevents you from revealing to a person. Understand your thoughts and find out what obstacles exist. Perhaps next to this person you feel uncomfortable, sandwiched. Think about why this happens and find out what is bothering or bothering you. Lack of trust may hinder being frank. And many are afraid to be misunderstood or seem bad.
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If the lack of trust prevents you from opening up, then find out why you cannot trust a person. If he has a bad reputation or has been caught lying or divulging other people's secrets, then consider whether it is worth revealing. If there is no reason for concern, but there are still doubts, then communicate more with your opponent, get to know him and find out the details of his life. But do not try to reveal all the secrets, because a person may well be afraid to open his soul.
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In order not to be afraid to open up, be yourself and do not try to appear as who you are not. In this case, you will not be afraid to disappoint a person, because he already knows your features and character traits. If you create a nonexistent image, then in any case you will be scared. Indeed, in the eyes of the opponent this image will be destroyed, and you will look ridiculous. But some behave absolutely naturally and always remain themselves, but the fear of disappointing a person is still present. Then understand for yourself that all people are different, that everyone has oddities. And if you do not want to understand and accept, then think about whether you need such communication.
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If there is no fear, take action. Drop all doubts and get ready to open your soul. Communicate more, spend as much time as possible together. Discuss various topics and be sure to express your opinion so that the opponent can learn and understand your principles and outlook on life. Tell us about yourself, about your family, and about your past life. It’s not worth revealing all the secrets at once, start with small secrets. Do not forget to find out the details from the life of a person, so that you can learn him better. You can find some common activity that will suit and captivate both. Plunging into an interesting process, you can see the previously unknown and previously unknown sides of the opponent and at the same time show some of your features.
note
Do not rush to open up if you are afraid. You still have time to do this, but haste can lead to mental trauma.
Useful advice
If you are afraid to open up, try to directly tell the person about it. His answer will let you know if your fears are valid.
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