Many nice guys have such a not always pleasant quality, like shyness. In addition, a young man may simply not know that a girl likes him. In both of these cases, the girl will have to push the guy to the first step if she wants to be with him.
Instruction manual
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If you saw the young man you liked in a public place, your task is to push him to get to know each other. You can do this with the help of a radiant smile addressed personally to him, or with more complex methods. For example - if both of you are traveling in transport, sit next to each other, get out the crossword puzzle and after a while ask him for a word. Either ask them to open a bottle of water for you, or to help do something equally simple. After he helps you, thank and say an unobtrusive compliment. Then it’s up to him.
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In a situation where you already know the guy and expect active actions from him, be more attentive to him than to the rest of the guy: smile more often, listen enthusiastically to what he says, laugh at his jokes. Casually touch. Your touch will make him notice you if he still hasn’t. However, do not be intrusive. Your business is to push slightly, and not to drive him into a corner by the manifestation of your sympathy.
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Send him an SMS about a holiday. It is better if this is not an official occasion, such as a birthday or New Year. At this time, he will receive many messages. Ideal birthday or a professional holiday. Try to make your SMS personal and memorable. Do not download the text of congratulations from the Internet, write yourself.
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Ask him for help - pump up the bike, fix the computer. At a time when he will help you, say how well he is doing. The next day, also thank him and tell him how much he helped you. If he offers his help in the future, take advantage of his offer in the near future. Just make sure that this help was completely easy for him and did not bother him. Feats are all in the future, at this stage it is important not to scare the guy away.
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A good method is to ask him for advice. It includes all the advantages of the previous version and does not have its disadvantages. The young man does not have to strain at all, giving you advice. At the same time, he will feel that in your eyes he is a significant and authoritative person, which will give courage to the most timid guy.