You can look for a true true friend all your life, but you can never find it. A person who believes that he has many friends does not actually have a single real one. But people need close communication, in order to entrust their innermost thoughts to someone, to share with someone. People need someone to understand them.
Who is a true friend?
It is believed that a true friend should help in health and wellness, in wealth and poverty, and, free of charge. Are you ready to help another person for free? Even if a telephone rings you in the middle of the night, are you ready to rush to a friend because he is lonely? Anyway, are you ready for the presence of another person all 24 hours a day?
Do not demand from others what they are not able to give themselves. Each person has advantages and disadvantages. Friends accept the flaws of another person and build their relationship on the basis of compromise and cooperation. But not business cooperation, but emotional.
Friends do not always have similar tastes and hobbies. The most important thing in friendship is the commonality of views on situations and the same life position.
True friendship does not endure envy. Many people are able to sympathize in grief, but few are capable of sincerely, without an injection of envy, to be happy for another person. If you are capable of this, you know how to be friends. Therefore, half of the problem on your part is resolved. It remains to find another of the same person.
Where to find a friend
Man learns to be friends from birth. If the family is friendly, then the child tries to show the same friendliness to others. Only relatives rarely become true friends. True friendship is unique in that two different people understand that they are one, and value this relationship.
First friends appear in kindergarten. It is possible that you carry your friendship through the years to gray hair. But this happens quite rarely.
The next stage in human life is school. Here it is more likely to find a real friend who will cover his back and tell me, and will not ask for anything in return. It is in school that friendship is formed more consciously.
Young people are very likely to make friends while serving in the army. The army has more severe conditions. It is immediately clear who is friend and who is enemy. Friendship relations that arose in the military enlistment office or at the recruiting center are likely to develop into real male friendships.
Universities and technical schools, colleges and colleges are another place of origin of true friendship. There are favorable conditions for this, because students already have one common hobby - a specialty.
In the adult life, a friend can be found everywhere - in an art gallery, in a museum, in a restaurant, in a fitness center, on the Internet - anywhere. The main thing is not to miss this moment and this person who can become your friend.