You do not have to try hard to quarrel with a friend forever, but making a friend from an enemy is much more difficult. Often the enemy is a person who causes antipathy and hostility. This does not mean that the person is bad, in most cases the enemies are not familiar with each other. There are just circumstances under which people begin to quarrel. Most of them are unlikely to explain the reason for the hostility.
You will need
Enemy, patience, friendliness.
Instruction manual
one
To begin with, you need to realize the complexity of the situation and find out if it is really worth the effort. After all, you can simply limit your communication with this person, forget about his existence, let him pour further dirt behind him, because all the bad things always come back as a boomerang. Is it worth it to spend time on this person if he has many bad qualities that there is no desire to face again and again? The situation is much worse when one is forced to communicate with such a person. It is unlikely that you can get rid of the contact if the person is a relative or colleague. Do not change the job because of an unpleasant employee and do not get divorced from your spouse because of her cousin.
2
If the decision to make a friend of the enemy has already been finally made, it is time to begin closer communication with the enemy. If this is a colleague, you can offer him help in a certain situation. When a person has serious problems that he cannot cope on his own, you need to take this opportunity and help him. He does not expect this at all, considering you his enemy, and will be greatly surprised at this turn of events. After such an unforeseen situation, he will begin to wonder if you really are a foe to him. Thus, the relationship will gradually improve.
3
A good attitude, a pleasant smile and kind words will melt any rudeness. After talking with a person who does not like you, heart to heart, you can find out why he considers you an enemy. If you choose the right moment when the enemy is in a good mood, you can try to position him towards you. To make it clear to him that you have nothing against him and do not think that it makes sense to quarrel with someone, since this is wasted time. Show that you are friendly and do not wish anyone harm.
note
You should not hurry, think over every trifle before doing something, so that the benefit does not turn into evil and does not spoil the relationship even more.
Useful advice
Do not impose your offer of friendship, it can add fuel to the fire, and the enemy, taking it for weakness, will try to use it at the wrong time for you.