Until recently, you played in the sandbox on the playground under the watchful supervision of your mother, and now you graduated from high school and enter into adulthood? The first step is to be taken.
The worst thing we can do is think too much about upcoming problems. Scripting in your head when there is no idea is far from the best option. Then it remains only to go to bed and cover yourself with a blanket to the ears, hoping that it will be less scary. However, this way we will not solve the problem. The best way is to stop thinking and acting. One action will entail the following, and we will find work without any problems entering adult life.
Believe in yourself
Do you know the reason for this fear? Due to a lack of faith in what you can handle. But there is another option. Believe in your capabilities, and you will achieve everything you want. Of course, it is quite natural to be afraid of uncertainty. Some are less afraid, others more. If this fear paralyzes, it is worth using the help of a psychotherapist. Cities, of course, increase the level of stress, and the entry into the life of this city is, of course, a jump into deep water.
If we are afraid of the unknown, to begin with it is worth figuring out what is hiding under the word "maturity"? Maturity from the point of psychology and biology is a part of the human life cycle that begins after a period of reaching physical maturity, completion of a period of biological growth of an organism and important life functions. According to developmental psychology, it is impossible to unambiguously determine when a person becomes an adult. Some believe that an adult is an economically independent person. Of course, this is part of the truth, but, of course, this is not the only indicator.
Change the point of view
Think, what are you really afraid of? Go to work? Indeed, all our lives we went to school day after day, after which we returned home and did homework. Now understand that work is no different from school. When working, you simply fulfill the assigned tasks and responsibilities for the appropriate monetary reward. If you work and earn money, then there is automatically money to stay.
Maturity teaches humility
In almost any case, theoretical knowledge is one thing, and reality is completely different. You can talk a lot about adulthood, but you will feel it only when you yourself enter it. Despite the fears, do not hesitate. Do not hide under the covers anymore. It may be warm and safe there, but life has prepared for you enough pleasant surprises that you can take advantage of simply by starting to act. Every day you will make choices for which you will suffer consequences, but this will teach humility. Maturity is a school that teaches life. It depends on you how quickly you learn and learn everything you need.