There is probably not much that a person who has love and happiness in life can still desire. These gifts of fate can be attracted if you give yourself the right attitude and work on your own personality.
Before you change the reality around you and the attitude of people around you, make a change in your own character and worldview. If you want to draw love into your life, learn to give it first. You need to give this wonderful feeling to your own person.
Look at yourself with different eyes, smile at your own reflection in the mirror. Think about all that is good in you. Drop thoughts of some flaws. Believe me, every person has them. You must be firmly convinced that you are worthy of love, that you deserve to receive this wonderful feeling.
When you stop waiting for love and start living in it, then your life will change. A real feeling will come, that same person will appear who will become near and dear. It is only necessary not to seek any consolation in relations with other people, confirmation of one's own need or presence of virtues, but simply to accept love in a state of joyful peace.
Do not forget about self-confidence. Low self-esteem can be a serious obstacle to love and happiness. A person who does not value himself enough and loves will not be able to realize his own potential. In relationships, such an individual feels insecure, and this can overshadow even a successful union.
A person who is gnawed by doubts and fears cannot enjoy the present moment. But learning to live here and now is one of the paths to happiness. Even during a life that is not happy for objective reasons, you can find an island of joy and peace in your soul, but only if you live in harmony with yourself.
It is important to think positively if you want to invoke happiness in your life. An optimistic person has more joyful moments during the day, if only because he notices them. Moreover, the internal mood affects how events develop around you. Do not forget that thoughts are material.
To achieve happiness, you need to achieve harmony between your soul and the outside world. Listen to yourself. Find your favorite job or hobby and half the job will be done. Do not be afraid to change your life, because this is the only way to build it in the form you want. Awareness of the problem and work on yourself is the first step. Then you need to act to make your dreams come true.