Some people can easily make new friends and acquaintances, while others find it difficult to establish contact with an outsider, and there is nothing to say about establishing friendships. What does it depend on? From character, activity, sociability. But everyone needs friends. They will help in difficult times, share your joy and happiness. There are many tips on how to attract friends, but the main thing is to have a great desire to do this.
Instruction manual
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First think about why it is so difficult for you to make new friends. Perhaps you are too shy, taciturn, clamped, afraid that you will not be able to interest others. If this is so, then you should think about how to become more confident and sociable, try to change yourself. For example, instead of sitting at home on a TV or computer monitor, go to a museum, to an exhibition, go in for sports, sign up for courses, etc. Such a pastime is useful for your development, and also at such events you will have the opportunity to meet new people, with some of whom you can establish friendly relations.
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You can attract a person’s attention if you talk with him about what he likes, what he wants. Most people like it when their interlocutor shows a sincere interest in them, in their hobbies, in life. And if the topic is interesting to you, then it will be just wonderful. You can not only discuss common hobbies and desires, but also try to find methods to satisfy them.
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Listen carefully to what your opponent is saying. If you constantly interrupt, or your appearance will express boredom, then do not count on establishing friendly contact.
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That people were drawn to you, treat them with friendliness, smile when communicating. Sometimes where it is not possible to find an approach in word or deed, an ordinary smile can do it. It is easier for a positive and cheerful person to establish communication with an outsider than for a gloomy and sad person.
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Use different methods to get to know each other. For example, pay attention to your colleagues. Perhaps among them there are people with whom you have common interests, hobbies, and it is worthwhile to make a little effort so that relations develop into the category of friendships. You can use the help of modern technology. Various social networks are a great way to find friends not only in different cities, but also in different countries of the world. This is especially suitable for those who communicate in the real world with difficulty.
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If you meet a person with whom you are interested, then most likely you would like him to become your friend. But do not rush things. Friendship is not born in one day, it needs time. Therefore, do not put pressure on a person, let events develop independently. And one day you will be able to say: "Now I have a real friend."