Only an adult can fully take responsibility for his own life. If you want to become a more mature person, reconsider your lifestyle and attitude to the world around you.
Instruction manual
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Get used to solving all your problems yourself. Do not shift work on some issues to other people, do not try to avoid making responsible decisions. A truly adult person is responsible for his words and actions. He does not look for the guilty and hopes only for his own strength. When you relate to life in the same way, then you will understand what it means to be a mature person.
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Know how to provide yourself. Find a job that will bring you enough income to meet all your basic needs. A person who constantly borrows money and depends on his parents cannot fully be considered an adult. If, despite having a permanent job, you cannot meet your personal budget, you must either increase your income or cut back on expenses by reviewing some habits. The ability to manage finances distinguishes an adult.
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Learn to control yourself. An adult is distinguished by the ability to control their own emotions. This is especially true of negative feelings. The explosive nature and inability to behave in society suggests that you are not a mature person, but a capricious child. Realize the need to control your emotions and not let them suppress your consciousness. Then you will prove yourself as a responsible, adult.
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Stop living in a fantasy world. Take off your pink glasses and look at the surrounding reality objectively. Stop being too naive. Do not let yourself be fooled. An adult is critical of the words of other people, not everything is taken on faith and checks the facts before trusting them. Do not let others influence your opinion. Learn to recognize attempts to manipulate you and suppress your will. Always think about what hidden motives others may have.
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Learn to protect yourself from negativity. This is not about giving back to everyone who offends you, but about the correct reaction to negative moments in life. You should not take annoying little things that happen daily to your heart and get upset over trifles. Learn to morally shut yourself off from the onslaught of the outside world. Otherwise, you will face real stress. Take care of yourself.
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Develop your system of principles. Act according to your worldview and do not betray your views. An adult has his own point of view on each issue that somehow concerns him. Get used to thinking, deciding what is best for you, how to do the right thing. Be able to argue your opinion. Learn to think.