It is not easy when a loved one leaves. However, personal relationships are just one part of your life. Endure, do not hold resentment and anger. After a dark period in your life, the sun will shine again.
This is a very painful and difficult situation in the life of any person. It’s hard when suddenly a person leaves you who was almost your own. The world is seen in gray colors and it seems that such happiness will no longer be. But this is not so. Life goes on, and gradually this life tragedy begins to be forgotten. Six months later, the acute pain goes away, and after a year it completely stops. In order to survive the state of abandonment and not fall into a prolonged depression, follow the rules:
- Do not let your own wounded ego build itself into a victim. Do not accumulate resentment and anger, scrolling through the head painful scenes from the past. These thoughts corrode the soul and body, spoil health.
- Do not take revenge on the offender and try not to speak badly against him. Sorry and let go. It so happened in life that you broke up badly. Try to forget about it. You should not denigrate the person who threw you in the eyes of common friends and relatives, nothing good will come of it. Do not take revenge, evil always breeds evil.
- Do not immediately look for a replacement for the person who left you. The proverb “wedge by wedge by wedge” in this case does not work. No need to frantically seek a replacement for a loved one to ease the pain in the soul. The first six months, negative feelings are still aggravated enough to build a new full-fledged relationship.
Remember, the darkest time before dawn, after the tragedy experienced in your life, happiness will happen again and again.