Girls, getting married, sincerely hope to build a relationship based on love and fidelity. Unfortunately, not all of these hopes come true. Is it possible to understand in advance whether a man will change in marriage?
Signs of a predilection for betrayal appear at the first stages of the relationship, but they usually prefer not to notice. As a rule, they begin to recall them very late, when it is already impossible or very difficult to correct the current situation. It is necessary to analyze the behavior of a potential spouse from the first stages of dating.
How can you identify signs of a tendency to cheat from the very beginning?
Find out how your chosen one built previous relationships.
Popular wisdom says that people, as a rule, do not change and in most cases repeat their mistakes over and over again. Find a way to find out if your chosen one has had a betrayal in a previous relationship. Some people do not hide this, in other cases, information from friends and acquaintances will help you. If betrayal took place in a previous relationship, there is no reason to build the illusion that they will not be this time.
Also, the presence of a double relationship (wife, lover) speaks of a certain psychological stock of a person who is unlikely to change without conscious and focused efforts.
Analyze the attitude towards women of your chosen one.
To understand whether a man will change in marriage, you need to understand what a woman means to him in the broadest sense. For some, a woman is just an object of pleasure, for someone a muse or object of worship. Some men see in women a potential friend whom they can trust, while others perceive them only as potential mothers.
Is the woman to be used or the one that needs support and admiration? What is the responsibility of a man to a woman and a woman to a man?
If you understand how your potential chosen one answers these questions for yourself, you can almost certainly understand whether he is prone to cheating.
If his inner perception of a woman can be characterized by such concepts as respect, care, a reasonable sense of duty, trust, sincerity in a relationship, then most likely such a man will not be prone to betrayal.
And vice versa, the desire to depreciate, use, put their interests higher will give out a willingness to go to the left.
See how the attitude towards a woman is manifested in life, not in words.
To understand how your chosen one really relates to women is possible only by the actions that he performs. Assurances about how he will relate well in conjunction with deception and actions contrary to such words should alert.
Analyze the relationship in the parent family of the potential groom. Is the relationship between his father and mother built on respect for the psychological climate in the family? Usually, children adopt scenarios of relationships between relatives at an unconscious level and implement it in their lives. This can only be changed with the help of serious psychological work.
To understand whether a man will change in marriage, you need not to rush, study your chosen one, his motives and believe your heart - only it can recognize many hidden things.