To like by correspondence, you can use the same methods as in direct communication. We do not see the interlocutor, but the language of correspondence is rich enough and can convey the whole spectrum of feelings and impressions.
You will need
Computer with internet connection, sheet of paper, pen
Instruction manual
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Radiate positivity and goodwill; Be polite. Lead the role of the person for whom "the glass is half full." Try not to use categorical negative expressions, minimize the number of words "no". On the other hand, do not overdo it, so as not to appear frivolous hang.
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As often as possible, contact a person by name - it works wonders! Remember the advice of Dale Carnegie, who wrote that "The name of a person is the sweetest and most important sound for him." Avoid talking and free interpretations of the name of the interlocutor, if you do not correspond for long.
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Be careful and interested. Record important dates and events for the interlocutor; insert quotes from your past letters from time to time. Show that everything connected with it is important to you. Do this carefully and unobtrusively, otherwise it may seem to the interlocutor that you are sucking or simply deprived of your own opinion.
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Show confidence, emphasize your identity. At every opportunity, little by little describe your hobbies and features. Do this sparingly and with the understanding that the other person is really interested. Do not forget that self-confidence and self-confidence are completely opposite states.
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Joke, but carefully. To begin with, feel how developed the interlocutor has a sense of humor and whether it coincides with yours, so as not to be considered a clown. At the beginning of the correspondence, it is better to narrow the boundaries of jokes so that inadvertently your humor does not turn against you.
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Identify dangerous topics for correspondence. Do not get personal. Use caution in discussing intimate, related, racial, and religious topics and gossip.
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Write compliments to the interlocutor, but in moderation and sincerely. No need to shower him with adjectives with Caucasian generosity and fix it with two dozens of emoticons. Never flatter the other person.
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Emphasize what is common between you. Find the "common wave" and surrender to emotions; share experiences, impressions, comparisons. With all your heart, enjoy correspondence as many paragraphs as you can.
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Encourage a person to tell about themselves: ask questions, specify. If you feel that you can offer him advice or comment - do it politely and correctly. At the same time, do not forget that correspondence is a two-way process and do not allow turning into a “vest” or a listener of a “radio without a switch”.
note
Writing illiterate letters is impolite. Carefully check spelling and punctuation. Highlight paragraphs and red lines. Do not abuse abbreviations and emoticons.
Useful advice
A good way to enjoy it is to share photos and videos. Attach to your letter a collage of photos of everything you love in life or a video report of an event that impressed you.