When others seem completely boring, uninteresting, stupid, narcissistic people, the desire to communicate with them does not arise. But deliberately isolating yourself from everyone is the wrong choice, because you live in a society where it is almost impossible to avoid contact with people. In addition, it is much easier and happier to live, giving others good and positive that will definitely return to you.
Instruction manual
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Get rid of the negative towards others: do not think badly of them, do not criticize. It is impossible to love those whom you contemplate with discontent, contempt, or anger. Mentally send good things to people and tune in to positive things - this, firstly, will be expressed in words, and you will feel better about others, and secondly, without anger and a gloomy face, they will be drawn to you. To fall in love with people who are located to you is not difficult.
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Change your mind about others - they are just as interesting people as you are. You can verify this with a regular conversation: find common ground, that is, topics that are important to both you and your interlocutors, ask about hobbies that may well be similar. You have more in common with others than you think, because they probably watch movies, TV shows, read books, follow the news or are interested in music. As soon as you become interested in people, you will love them, and it will be mutual.
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Be indulgent to the flaws of others. You do not like being discussed behind your back, delving into the past or your personal life, but the people you contact will always be interested in what is happening in your house, because they are who they are. You will not change them, but this is not a reason to stop communicating with them - just change your attitude to the situation and do not take it so seriously. Remember that you also have weaknesses that others forgive, continuing to love you, so love you too.
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Find positive qualities in others. People value each other mainly for the good that they see in a person. Be grateful to a colleague who greets every day with a smile, despite the early morning, or to a neighbor who handed you a letter that fell into his mailbox by mistake. Pay attention to such seemingly insignificant trifles, because people consist of them, because if people around you do not save their lives every day, but this does not mean that they have nothing to respect and love.
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Do not draw premature conclusions. If the acquaintance who promised to do this did not call you back, do not judge him in haste, but sort things out - maybe his phone is dead or he is sick. Give others a second chance. If the same person deceives and disappoints again and again, then stop communicating with him, but do not generalize other people in his person. Do not forget that people around you come across people who lie, don’t keep their word, gossip, etc., but this is not a reason to ignore people and not love them.