Naturally, the simplest explanation for failures or misses is to search for reasons related to lack of talent or generally unfavorable karma. Most often, failures are attributed to the machinations of enemies and ill-wishers. And in the end, humility with failures and other negative situations is becoming commonplace. In fact, the fulfillment of our desires depends only on ourselves. If you start to purposefully move in one direction, luck will not keep you waiting long.
Instruction manual
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First of all, we create ourselves a state of happiness. Allow yourself this luxury. Indeed, we often limit ourselves, for example, in the search for a good and paid job (telling ourselves that we can’t do it). Get out of doubt and believe in yourself.
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Motivate yourself constantly. Constantly maintain in yourself the idea that the dream is feasible, and all desires will certainly come true someday. Keep yourself up to date. Create in your head pictures of your dreams come true (as if it were already a joyful fact), and their implementation will not take long.
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Encourage yourself for every victory. Celebrate and celebrate them in a big way. Do not pay attention to problems or failures. Deserved rewards are very motivating to achieve the following goals and perform next tasks. You can even keep a kind of diary in which to cover the pleasant events that happened, to make plans. All failures that occur should be taken as lessons, to learn from them the positive constructive moments. In no case do not blame yourself for the fact that something failed or failed.
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Analyze what you really enjoy doing. Be yourself, do not lie to yourself. Respect yourself, appreciate what is good in you: talents, hobbies, interests, abilities. After all, it is quite possible that the features of your unbearable character, in the opinion of the boss, may become fundamental in your career in another field of activity.
Useful advice
Keep a diary of victories and defeats.