Everyone is attracted to those people who can remain calm even in the most unpredictable situations. Many admire them, want to be like such people. It is not difficult, just learn to avoid behaviors that inhibit your progress and prevent you from being happy.
Instruction manual
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Smart people never pay attention to the negative from others, they rejoice at their success, they simply are not interested in the opinion of detractors.
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No one is safe from mistakes and smart people are no exception. However, they learned to learn from their failures. Smart people remember their mistakes and take steps to not repeat them again.
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Many break down in a conflict situation, they realize that in any case they will be defeated, but their emotions are stronger than the mind. Smart people know how to restrain and control themselves, they know in which situation it is possible to defend their innocence, and in which it is better to keep silent.
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Some strive for excellence and are very worried that they cannot achieve this. Smart people know that the ideal does not exist. Therefore, they are not upset if they did not receive something, but rejoice at what they were able to receive.
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The ability to take risks and accept defeat is the main feature of smart people. They do not reproach themselves for past mistakes, but, as was said earlier, learn from them and move on. They believe that one who lives in the past has no future.
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Your thoughts affect your emotional state. Therefore, smart people do not think about problems, they reflect on ways to solve them.
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Smart people will not whine and complain about their problems. If they happen to communicate with such individuals, they will ask them what they are going to do to solve the situation. This will encourage fans to ponder to find solutions to their problems.
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Negative emotions are necessary, they help to resist in a particular situation. However, when the problem is resolved, negative emotions can harm your health, as it immerses you in a stressful state. Therefore, smart people never hold evil on others.
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Smart people will not do what they really do not want, they can say no. The ability to refuse makes it possible not to overload oneself with tasks and helps to manage to do everything that is planned.