The problem of parents and children is not only very ancient, but also relevant as never before in our time. Adults, thinking that they understand better, impose their opinions on literally everything: where to go to study, how to get dressed, with whom and where to walk, and even which life partner to choose. Adolescents, in turn, try to prove that they are independent and adults, often unsuccessfully. How to improve relations with parents?
Tip one
Get financial independence. Of course, it will not be very easy to do this until the age of 18, but since you have just received a passport, you can very well start earning money. It would seem, where does the parents? The thing is that when you bring your first hard-earned money to the house, your parents will respect you more. Yes, do not be surprised: it’s easy to become an adult from a child. A gift bought from the first pay to mom will help me to melt her heart, and who knows, maybe she will let you go to the party forbidden by her.
Tip two
Addicted to their hobbies. At least you can pretend. Communication on neutral topics such as football or fishing with your father, and with your mother about culinary delights, will help you get close and establish communication. You will gain more trust, and this is the first step towards freedom.
Tip Three
Move the frames and borders. Something is being asked of you, but are you keeping silent or moving away from the topic? Or maybe even worse roll up a scandal and slam the doors? This will not only not solve the problem, but will aggravate it. What to do if you don’t want to reveal your secrets? Try to start the conversation yourself. We talked a little about the good, told us that you can within acceptable limits. They are pleased with the information received, and will not bother you again. Such heart-to-heart talk shows your confidence. And, as previously mentioned, trust is the key to freedom.
Tip Four
Do not forget to help. It also shows the degree of your growing up. Water the flowers or take out the trash, hammer a nail or fix something. To do this easily and quickly, and most importantly, effectively helps in relations with parents. Joint activity is the best possible approach to eliminate misunderstandings, which, in turn, is the root of all problems.