How effective your communication with other people will depend on your attitude to others. If you want to improve your social life, work out the right attitude towards other individuals.
Instruction manual
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Get rid of the habit of criticizing others. You cannot know all the circumstances of other people's lives, therefore, you are not fully aware of the motives for their actions. To judge others means to think out for them and hang their worldview on people. Remember that all people are different. Others had different living conditions, different upbringing.
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Recognize the right of people to their own opinions. Categorically-minded individuals, who believe that only they are always right in everything, do not succeed in communication. Remember that other people have their own life priorities and values. They build their reality in accordance with their own outlook on life and have their own point of view.
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Try to find in each of the people around you something good, interesting, worthy of attention or even imitation. Surely each of your friends has positive qualities of character. Most likely, you have something to learn from others. That is why it is worth treating people with sympathy and respect.
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Do not put yourself above others. High self-esteem and arrogance will not make your circle of friends wider, and the number of good friends is greater. Optimal self-determination and harmonious relationships with others suggest that a person puts himself on the same level with other people and communicates with them on an equal footing.
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Do not contrast yourself with other people. The individual, who is too wary of others, sees potential enemies in all and perceives all actions with hostility, cannot achieve harmony in his social life. Believe me, other people are more concerned about their own lives, and not about how to poison your existence.
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Be friendly and open. Your friendliness will do you a great service. People, seeing your positive attitude and kind smile, will be drawn to you. It turns out that you will make half the business of establishing contact with only one mood.
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Learn to trust people. Do not shy away from everyone around you. Of course, there are individuals who may not justify your faith, but you should have a support group consisting of friends and good friends.
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Work on yourself to learn how to forgive people their mistakes and misconduct. Remember that every individual can stumble. Show more mercy and patience. But to forgive a person who commits the same mistake several times is another question.