War is between people, even in peacetime. Everywhere and always there are those who want to bite off a piece of you, but fatter. And no matter what exactly - a piece of time, money, health, official position. An elementary "light" on the street - what is not a situation close to war? It is necessary to keep the territory that belongs to you and your loved ones. There is no need to be an aggressor or an invader, but it is necessary to maintain one’s position in order to win a modern war.
Instruction manual
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First of all, start with yourself. Analyze your strengths and weaknesses. Analyzed? Now forget about this separation. Each of your former weaknesses is now strong. You are an independent combat unit aimed at one goal, which is defense.
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Think about what is most often encroached in our world? Right, to respect. Rudeness and unreasonable attacks are more than enough, because they are unpredictable. They instill fear in an unprepared person. Spend a little work on yourself - return to the situation in which you experienced fear. Fear is an emotion that can not be avoided, but you can translate it into aggression. Lose the situation in which you experienced fear and degenerate it into aggression. Repeat this exercise several times.
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Use this skill if you or your loved ones are trying to put pressure. Do not leave the enemy a second chance: he would not give it to you. Unleash your anger on the aggressor, because you are really right - they are invading your territory, and you must protect it.
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Use the trick. Remember that other people also fear the stronger or the more senior. When trying to pressure that you are not able to cope with, act through a person who is higher than the aggressor either in the ranks or in social position.
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Use allies. Try to be as useful as possible to those people who are positively inclined towards you - in their person you can get unique allies, with whom the devil himself will not be afraid.
Useful advice
Combine the above methods depending on the situation you are in.