Maturity is often expressed in a person’s ability to behave in stressful situations characteristic of adulthood. An adult child will soon behave impulsively, not realizing its actions. Modern society dictates special requirements to all its members when people need to stop being a child as soon as possible and when they are young they take their place in the sun, showing decent behavior, so it is so important to grow up as soon as possible.
You will need
- Clean bedroom
- Paint and brushes
- Repair Supplies
- Business (work, university, etc.)
- Notebook
- A pen
Instruction manual
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The first step to stop being a child is to organize personal space. Try to save your room from all the things that are not suitable for an adult - posters, plush toys, dolls, car models, etc. Paint the walls of your room in "serious" neutral colors. Leave in the room only the most necessary furniture - a bed, a desk, a chair, a wardrobe.
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Organize your wardrobe. Throw away all worn sweaters, beloved from childhood, remove all T-shirts with “funny” applications from the closet, etc. Leave a few sets of casual clothes, from the one in which you look serious and older. Try complementing your wardrobe with more formal costumes.
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To stop being a child, start to get up at work time every day - between 7-9 a.m. You must be able to do it yourself, without anyone else's help. Choose the right clothes for your daily routine and bring it into proper condition yourself (washing, ironing).
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A mature person daily makes sure that his bed remains made up in the morning, independently changes the bedclothes, washes dishes, tidies his room and workplace. Choosing independence from parents and anyone else in the organization of your life, you demonstrate your maturity. If you don’t know how to perform this or that household duty, just ask once someone close to tell you how to do it.
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To stop being a child will help a new way to start the day. Every morning, cheerfully greet your family members. Cook and eat your breakfast, wash your dishes. If you notice that you need to remove plates or garbage from the table, do it without reminding adults.
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Practice mature behavior when someone tries to provoke you. The first reaction of your mind to such actions will be an instinctive blow, a defense. However, in the case when you manage to grow up, you will more thoughtfully respond to attempts to offend you.
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Accept the fact that you may not know something - this is evidence of your growing up. Observe the behavior of other adults and try to ask questions in cases where you do not understand their actions, but do not abuse this opportunity. Attempts to hide their ignorance on any issue are evidence of infantilism.