I want to be a necessary and respected person, to realize that life does not go in vain. If you feel like nobody and categorically does not suit you - change, build your life the way you want, and raise your self-esteem.
Instruction manual
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Think about a job change. If your current occupation seems completely pointless to you, you do not see the real benefits of your work, do what makes you respect or admiration. Of course, it is impossible to get some necessary professions without an appropriate higher education: you simply cannot become a doctor, scientist or lifeguard, but there are still many options to feel your worth in less qualified specialties. Also, do not forget about the possibility of obtaining another higher education.
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If you are not ready to part with your current job, become a volunteer. In your free time, help children, the elderly, homeless animals; during your vacation, choose not an expensive resort, but go to a volunteer camp to help those who need it. Gather things and take them to less affluent people, make donations if possible.
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Produce something. The visual result of your work, which you can see and touch, will help you increase your self-esteem. Cook jam, knit sweaters, weave baskets, make furniture, cut figurines from wood, grow vegetables. Allow yourself to truly get carried away with what you do, and you will enjoy your hobby tremendously.
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Make friends if you still haven’t. Create your own social circle where each person will be loved and significant, including you. Close people will be interested in your affairs, ask about successes, sincerely empathize with failures. For them you will not be anyone.
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Become an expert in any field. Develop, expand your horizons, ensure that people turn to you for advice. A string of people who want to know your opinion will help you feel necessary and meaningful.
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Make people happy. Help friends, delight friends with trifles, give gifts to loved ones. Pay attention to the people around you, and they will treat you with care and value you. You are no longer an empty place - you are a person who makes others happier.
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Do not be afraid to take risks. If you have the opportunity to do something and succeed, get involved in an adventure, because this is a great opportunity to stop being nobody in a short period of time. But do not expect that for the rest of the time you will reap the laurels: you will have to continue to work hard to stay in the gained positions.