Almost every person at certain moments of his life felt like a failure and the weakest link in the team. However, it should be understood that this is not forever, and working on yourself, you can get out of this situation.
Outsiders are people with problems in psychological development. It is hard to be alone when you are not understood and shunned. With age, people become more tolerant of each other. The most acute period in this regard is the teenage one, when the process of personality formation is under way, and the team forms its leaders and outsiders (outcasts, losers). There are the following reasons why a team can ignore a person:
- strange behavior caused by deviations in the psyche;
- Conflict, isolation, resulting from the belief that there is one danger and all enemies around;
- open antagonism;
- timidity, gentleness, defenselessness.
With any team, whatever it may be, you can find mutual understanding. If it so happened that a person fell into this category, then do not despair. Almost all people at one point or another in life were outsiders. In any difficult life situations, the origins of the problem should first of all be sought in oneself.
Introspection is the most effective way to get out of this situation. It is not easy and painful. In this matter, a psychologist can best help. Because it will give a detailed and objective picture of your problem, as a person not interested in comforting or supporting. They come to such specialists to help him see the strengths and weaknesses of the personality.
Do not try to please the team that rejected you, it will only worsen the situation. Be who you are. At this stage of your life’s path, you have such a role, work on it, change yourself for the better. And after a while you can see how the world around you has been transformed.