When a person has sorrow, he can become isolated in himself and no longer get out of this state. Do not leave grieving relatives, try to help them, but get ready for a long struggle with their longing and depression.
Instruction manual
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Do not leave a friend in grief alone, you can negotiate with people close to him so that someone is always with him. Now all things and events will remind the person of the loss. It causes physical suffering, loss of appetite, exhaustion, fever and muscle weakness are observed. This condition can be replaced by violence and attempted suicide.
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Words of comfort to a person in such an acute condition will not help. He will not hear and understand them. Distract him with tactile contacts, just like comforting crying children. Hug the grieving person, touch his shoulder. Now it is simply necessary to cause tears and strong feelings in order to distract a person from contemplating the void in his soul.
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When it explodes with sobs, it means that his experiences have passed into a new phase, where it will be easier for you to reach it. Previously, tears were caused by special people - mourners.
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A grieving person may begin to blame someone for his loss; he may be overwhelmed by a feeling of anger. Do not try to argue in this case, help these emotions pour out without a trace. This will reduce the likelihood of a discharge of rage on loved ones. If a person closes the negative within himself, this can cause severe depression.
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At this time, you can let a person go to work if he wants and there is such a need. But the labor regime must be gentle, because a person physically weakened by grief is still weak. Call him for a walk in the park, contemplative activities are suitable: exhibition of paintings, examination of the exposition in the museum. You can combine walks and communication with nature, a trip with an overnight stay and a campfire will distract the grieving person. Perhaps looking at the starry sky, he will begin to think about the future.
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Slowly start introducing the person you are taking care of to any activity. Let him know that he is an ordinary person. Say that he is too busy nurturing his condition and does not see the experiences of other people, and they need his help. Offer to go together with friends or relatives and help them in some business.
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It is now that you can delicately hint that you can’t give up professional activity, because no one will feed him all his life. Help the person overcome the fear of appearing in public after a long period of grief, if possible, visit him at work several times. Visit your friends and plan a weekend break together.