There are people who attract attention at a glance, instantly inspire trust and sympathy. They are able to lead millions of other people to achieve a goal. Without uttering a single word, they attract to their side all who meet in their path. So what is their secret? How to fascinate people?
Instruction manual
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Be sincere in your intentions and actions. Sincerity is a defining moment in the relationship between people. Each person, before starting any relationship, wants to make sure the honesty of the intentions of the partner.
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Be tolerant of other people's views and actions. It is unlikely that a person discussing someone’s actions will arouse sympathy. No one will like it if they listen to his position and immediately begin to prove the opposite or, even worse, make him laugh. Each person has their own attitudes and moral principles. And do not even try to rebuild others for yourself.
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Learn to adapt to any circumstances and any society, but do not lose control over yourself. But never let anyone impose their will and desires. Live exclusively with your mind. It is the ability to get along without conflict in any society, while remaining itself, and is called flexibility.
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Hope for the best and dream. Everything in this world begins with a dream and hope for its realization. It is a dream that gives strength to action and determination. People who know what they want and achieve their goal arouse at least respect, and in some cases they even become idols of millions.
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Be confident in yourself, trust your reason. Only a self-confident person can convey his thoughts to other people and achieve his goal.
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Develop a sense of humor. People have too many problems to look at sad faces. In addition, with the help of humor, you can defuse the darkest atmosphere and distract people from bad thoughts. If you can’t help a person, then at least cheer him up. It should be noted that we are talking about a normal sense of humor, jesters, as a rule, do not cause much admiration.
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Be enthusiastic about any business. This will give strength and motivate other people to do things.
note
The sum of all these qualities is called a person’s personal charm. But keep in mind that if at least one of these properties is false and pretend, it will not only charm anyone, but also cause the exact opposite reaction in people.