The need to feel protected is basic after the need for sleep, food and drink. A person often feels vulnerable in the face of sudden terrible events. To gain confidence in life will help stability in its main areas.
Instruction manual
one
Usually the most vulnerable are 3 life spheres: financial, professional and personal relations. To feel protected, take some action in each of them. For many people, they are interconnected: for example, friendship with partners supports business, and income depends on success in business. Do not absolutize the financial sector, even significant funds can not always solve problems.
2
In the field of finance, one will have to take unpopular measures - cut spending. In fact, everyone is in short supply of money, so it’s difficult to put aside 10-20% of what is earned for people of all income levels. Set aside this money for three purposes: security before force majeure, retirement, and fulfillment of desires. In what proportion to distribute funds - it is up to you. Experts recommend saving enough money to live for 3-6 months with a certain level of comfort. In this case, losing your job will not be a disaster for you.
3
Set aside some of the money for the coming old age. How exactly to invest them in order not to lose is a question for finance experts, read about it in books, for example, by David Bach. And the most pleasant share of the accumulated money is for a dream. Maybe you want to buy a new yogurt maker, or maybe you want to educate your children or grandchildren abroad. The speed of approaching the goal depends on your ability to save money. However, the fact that you are getting closer to a dream will warm your soul and improve your mood.
4
In the field of professional qualities, learn, constantly learn new skills and read new literature in the specialty. Every day, write yourself a development plan, follow it - and you will be sure that you will find a job with any changes in the world.
5
Personal relationships are the most difficult area. If we are talking about partners in marriage, do not let your loved one get bored. A large number of families break up due to banal boredom. Such relationships arise because one of the partners or both do not want to work on themselves and develop. Try to stay interesting, look for new common hobbies. And then you will not be left alone, even if it does not work out with this person. You will have to work in any of the areas, but a sense of security should not stop you and be a reason for stagnation. Search and become more confident.