Mistakes spoil the mood, add problems to life. Who would refuse to learn to live without unnecessary obstacles? But first, you need to figure out whether it is possible to completely protect yourself from mistakes.
Instruction manual
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Analyze the problems that most often happen to you in life. For example, if you periodically do not have enough money to pay, think about why this happens. Perhaps you spend too much at the beginning of the month, and if you hadn’t done that, they would have been enough for the whole time. Such mistakes really can not be made, you just need to learn this.
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Control your words and deeds. A mistake can be made not only by one’s actions. You can offend the careless word of a loved one, quarrel with him, and this is also a rather unpleasant mistake, which leads to difficulties in communicating with a loved one. Scroll through the thoughts of such plots of your life and try to understand why you did not restrain your emotions, allowed them to spill out. Such thorough analysis will help you prevent a similar situation in the future.
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Think about why you are so afraid of making a mistake. Perhaps this fear comes from childhood, when you were afraid to do something wrong so as not to get a reprimand from your parents. Often mistakes lead to guilty feelings, although if you look, you are an adult, and your own conscience can best assess your misconduct, so try to negotiate with her.
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Change your attitude to errors. Think, because any of them leads to experience. Once you have determined what troubles happen to you most often, try translating them in a positive way. For example, if you often disagree with the opinions of other people, even if it is true, say to yourself: “Yes, I’m stubborn, but I’m very constant, and it’s difficult to confuse me.”
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Stop being afraid to stumble. Perhaps a little bump in the present will save you from big problems in the future. It is possible that if you manage to take mistakes differently, you will actually make them less. After all, often people attract their fears. Get rid of them, and your life will change for the better.