Many people want relationships for life. However, until now, our smart, insightful girls make mistakes in choosing a partner, because emotions often go ahead of the mind. They overwhelm, destroy logic, and then you have to bitterly regret that you did not look closely, did not understand
So it turns out that we approach the selection of shoes and handbags much more carefully than to search for a life partner, and we take what turns up. Meanwhile, there is a certain pattern by which you can try on a man to your requirements. It is possible and necessary that there are no disappointments. Consider the one who appeared on the horizon and threatens to capture your heart, on these points, discarding emotions for a while:
1. Normal psyche
This is not understood during a couple of meetings in a cafe - because here he will be gallant to disgrace, because it costs him nothing. But the party in the company of friends will show how he relates to others, to other girls. Especially if the situation is quite relaxed. Look at him not in love, but with an appreciative look - you will understand a lot. Much more effective in this regard is joint business, which you can organize yourself. In business, a person manifests itself best. After that, draw conclusions, your person or not.
2. Is he married?
It may well be, right? If he plans meetings only in the evenings, and is busy at the weekend, this is a sure sign. If he drops calls, and when he picks up the phone, he answers with a phrase like: “Ivan Ilyich, I'll call you back, ” he’s almost certainly married. In any case, you need to talk with him frankly. Perhaps he does not see anything special in the fact that you are a backup option for him. You decide.
3. Reliability
How to check it? More often ask for something, complicating the task. If hesitates, doesn’t want and “slips away” - in family life it will be worse. In this case, in the family you will have the role "I am a woman and a man."
4. Tact and courtesy
Perhaps this will seem irrelevant, but a tactful person will always feel your condition, will seek to help, unlike the insensitive bumpkin who does not understand something and does not want to waste his energy understanding your subtle mental organization. A polite person will not forget to congratulate him on a public holiday, to warn him if he cannot come on a date. This is an elementary attention to your person, elementary.
5. Interest in you
He is constantly up to date with your affairs, remembers your friends' name and what problems you have at work? So you are really interesting to him. And if he wants to talk only about his concerns, he is a real egoist, and it will be very difficult to build a relationship with him. It will be necessary to adapt to it.
Actually, this is just an elementary test of a partner’s suitability for a serious relationship. And if most points fall even here - you have to be a heroine to build a relationship with such a man.