Any action requires from a person not only a certain level of decisiveness, but also the realization that the responsibility for what is done lies entirely on him. Therefore, it is so important not to make a mistake when the situation requires an immediate solution.
Instruction manual
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Take your time. In this situation, the sayings “make laugh - make fun of people” and “measure seven times - cut one” are as relevant as possible. So that your action does not turn out to be reckless and hasty, you should have the most complete idea of the current state of things. Decision-making in the absence of information and a distorted view of what is happening promise failure. It is said that the one who owns the information owns the world.
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Now you are aware of all the circumstances and can safely weigh the pros and cons. Excessive sensitivity and emotionality here will only hurt. You should also not measure everyone with your own measure - the people around you are not required to possess the same moral values and personal qualities as you. Relate to the question of how to act impartially, even if the situation itself is contrary to your principles. Prejudice and the fact that the circumstances that have arisen in themselves are unacceptable to you do not contribute to the right decision.
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If the question concerns only you, do not try to involve unauthorized persons in its decision and moreover, transfer your responsibility to them in case of failure. The answer to the question "what to do?" you have to find it yourself. Do not involve friends and family in the search for optimal solutions to the current situation, playing on their feelings. Indeed, if someone of them agrees to help you find the answer, and the act turns out to be erroneous, you will throw all the burden of guilt onto an innocent person.
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Your decision, however, turned out to be wrong? Do not be upset and do not dig in - it negatively affects self-esteem. Calmly analyze what happened in order not to fall into such circumstances.